Wednesday, September 16, 2009

guess where we are eating bananas?

I've been a bit radio-dark on the cancer front, but for those of you who are tracking us: we have decided to go with the a few more rounds of chemo and watch closely route.

Round one started yesterday in Philadelphia. My little guy is much more active and obsessed with pulling himself up (using crib rails, my hands, my face, my hair) than he was in July when we were doing this last, so the next few days tethered to a pole and a small room are going to be quite the challenge. Ooh, and look at that halo of fuzz! His head is so velvety right now I cannot keep my hands off of him. Even though he'll be losing that soon, it's just nice to know it knows how to grow back. Reuben's eyelashes are dark and a good 1/8" long now, too, which I think is kind of giving him the guyliner look, but that's from the woman who stares at him all day long.

Our night went pretty well: he was up several times, but always consolable.
And he's smiling, which is not always the case here.
And currently rocking to Justin Roberts, of course. Though he thinks Mama should join him, so that's the end of this!

Thursday, September 10, 2009

between

My fruit reserves for the 3-hour drive to Philadelphia today: one yellow peach, one white peach, one pear, one Honeycrisp apple. The local harvest is between summer and fall.

I'm both eager for our doctor conversations (orthopedic surgeon, oncologist, genetic counselor) and heartsick. I even woke up in the fours and stayed awake, nervous (huge for night-owl me). Emotional between.

Reuben is enjoying his health: feeling active and cheerful and great, between surgery and the next...whatever we decide.

99999

(shoot! a day late!)

yesterday, my nephew turned 9 on 9.09.09
wish him happy birthday here!

(and his mum, my sister, is 9 months pregnant)

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

crazy in September

I sent out the Chrstismas gift rotation list to my siblings and their spouses last night.
Because I am crazy that way. And because part of fall for me is planning the winter giving, which I think is one of our better Western traditions: choosing a dismal-light season and expecting that we show each other a bit of love.

My soul is so cheered by a thoughtful gift , or even hearing about a good gift story. Usually, this means a handmade gift, but handgathered has its own particular beauty. One of my best gifts lately: my brother went to Mongolia this summer and brought back, for his textile-loving sister, lengths of silk. In green and aqua. And a hand-snipped paper cutting, with penned-in details and. Silk is a bit fancy for a heavily-used family room, but I'm using it to upholster my new window bench (hey, I have more if I need to remake it), where I can sit and be reminded that my family loves me and knows I have a passion for all things green and beautiful (ideas for what to do with the blue and brown?).I was particularly inspired today by this post at lovely design, showcasing a fantastic collection of paper sent to her from her partner's family in China, because they "heard of my fondness for old and interesting papers." Lovely tied bundles of lined writing paper and blueprints, charts, and grids. I love the listening and love in that gift, and am looking for that quality in my gift giving in December.

What have you been given that showed that same attentiveness? I know I've been a lucky giftee many times; I'll have to think about it and comment on my own post later tonight...

Monday, September 7, 2009

beautiful birch

Five years ago I checked an extra bag on a flight returning from Idaho Falls (my hometown) to Nashville (my home at the time). It was full of birch limbs pruned from the trees my dad planted in our front yard 25 years ago. In our continual quest to find/create more storage space in the chain of small apartments we fit our growing family into, Nathan had been building shelves and I, a long-time birchophile, thought that shelves with birch supports would be crazy-amazing.

Darn tootin' they are.I found these two photos in the August 2008 photo folder, when I finally sorted the limbs I wanted and decided on a shelf design, then for Reuben's nursery.A year later, I surprised the whole household by waking up feeling very vigorous and FINISHED.(Here's the obligatory Reuben shot: helping me sort the finally-found-that-box! branches. He thought the whole thing took way too long.)

To cut the limbs to exact shelf-supporting lengths I--okay, N did the work--borrowed a friend's chop saw last year (I think that's what it's called: one that pulls the blade down onto the wood). I had 9 branches that were at least 13", which I designated as shelf supports (3 per shelf), and a remaining 4 that were just a bit smaller, which I had cut to 12". I designated those as the bottom legs. We worked from the bottom up, using 1 1/2" wood screws to attach the branches at both ends. I predrilled the holes at first, but by the second shelf was only drilling a shallow hole (with a large bit) to countersink the screw head, which still prevented splitting. I charmed Nathan into being my good helper for the screwing-together part, and it was extraordinarily helpful to have another set of hands for this shelf's assembly because the branches don't stand by themselves for long.

I was going to attach another board along the back to add stability, but the finished shelf is sturdier than I (okay, Nathan) originally thought, so I left it off. Since the shelf will be holding my extra pottery, I am going to screw it to the wall with a couple of wee brackets so a certain little troublemaker (who is learning to crawl now that his arm feels better) can't pull it down (and I can't knock it over--the whole family had chocolate milk on the carpet tonight and guess who was the only one to spill hers?).

I wanted a loose organic feel, so spaced the branches irregularly, while keeping their support function in mind. I chose 8" wide 3/4" poplar planks (well sanded--progressing from 100 to 150 to 220 to a silky 320 is always worth the time) because I love the luminosity of the poplar grain. Unfortunately, that didn't quite come through once I stained them green (I used a very thin rubbed-on coat of IKEA's green stain, followed by a couple of coats of their beeswax polish. I've been very pleased with IKEA's wood finishes; they are inexpensive, easy to work with, and beautiful. I've read that they are solvent-free and vegetable-based, though I haven't thoroughly researched it. The site lists ingredients as "Linseed oil, Wood treatment oil, Pigment" and "Beeswax, Wax, Linseed oil, Wood treatment oil", respectively. They're pretty stinky, but I'm pretty sure that's the linseed oil. 24 hours later, the smell on these particular shelves is minimal, though I have had it linger for days when I put on lots of coats in a row. I give them a hearty recommendation.I love the color anyway and think the whole effect is very sunlight-streaming-through-a-birch-leaf canopy.I cannot believe these shelves are finally standing behind me as I type, ready to be filled once I paint this room (I will tape tomorrow!).

I would be so envious of myself.

Sunday, September 6, 2009

big bubbles

I've had bubbles on my mind lately.

It started with katie did's amazing post on the kids' zone she helped do as part of a fundraiser for her school's science lab (these ideas will be part of our school's fall festival...), and then I saw this big bubbles link, I think via the crafty crow.

This corn syrup/Joy liquid detergent bubble recipe was the one Katie recommended. She recommends letting it sit out, uncovered, overnight for stronger (and therefore bigger!) bubbles. Here is a long compilation of other homemade bubble recipes, recommending different detergents, most with corn syrup or glycerin to thicken. The good folks at Martha use corn syrup, in their recipe, which they label in their usual all-knowing tone as the best. Have you tried (and can recommend) any of them?

The recipe compilation I linked to above links, in turn, to other bubble sites, with bubble-making ideas of the giant and ordinary size. I badly want to try the hula hoop wrapped in yarn that Katie displays, but also make pretty fairy wands like this or this or this (an etsy search will yield dozens).

Phew! Now I can close all of these bubble tabs and windows that have been cluttering my desktop.

Friday, September 4, 2009

Wednesdays in the woods

(Can't help it. I do love me a bit of alliteration!)

I dragged 3 friends and one of my favorite dogs to Michaux Wednesday and although the logistics and the baby got, um, complicated, I'm hoping to keep Wednesdays in the woods as a tradition year-round, and next week will be smoother. Whenever we start aching to go back West (home!), I panic about leaving these lovely Eastern deciduous forests, and have lately realized I spend far too little time here. Although my actual hiking time was minimal, I did get to eat handfuls of late wild blueberries and gather a beautiful variety of mosses, along with the sweetest tiny lambsear and some bitty ferns, for my soon-to-be-filled (finally!) terrarium. And Reuben, while it lasted, was very comfortable to carry in his new-to-us backpack (thank you, Jeri--please let Andrew know!).